So had a thought, that when Love first caused differentiation into form, so it could share itself, it created Grace and Grief, there are of One thing. They are the first thing b/c together they carve out our space, the extremes of sadness and Joy. Within that, female and male were created, to allow form that could know God to multiply on its own.
The path of Healing is through Grief, into Grace, and Healing is there known.
Fear is the desire of avoidance, the desire to be left unmolested.
Rage is needs unmet, plus betrayal.
Hate is needs unmet, plus meanness.
Shame is part biology, the biology of disgust plus something... [in progress]